It is taught that men should arouse their wife with a good love-play (well kissing, sucking, caressing etc.) before penetration.
A lot of women who are into adultery is into it because their husband lack this skills. Many married women don’t just enjoy sex but only feels the pains.
Most times psycological factors, fears and shiness are the causes. Most women only just submits to their husband for sex but never surrenders to him for the sex, she retains deep within herself an area which she does not want him to touch, kiss or suck and when he makes romantic move to that area she rude him off, this is the major cause of the lack of pleasure. A co-operation of the body, soul and spirit of the couples will build them a happy, successful, marital harmony.
Couples should build their sexual intimacy so as to enjoy their sexual relationship to the maximum degree by surrendering themselves to each other for a real sexual experience.
Adultery is a great sin of death, couples should stay away from adultery.
If your spouse does not know how to do it better, then buy some tape or books that teaches about sex or seek for sex Counseling.
Thanks and enjoy your marriage life.
God bless you greatly and remain heavenly focused.
Rev. Dominic Okechukwu Akano
God bless you 