The major cause of marital conflict is not the lack of love or respect but the lack of mutual understanding between both party. It is lack of understanding that makes a woman to nag, disrespect or be unsubmissive to her husband, it is also lack of understanding that makes a man to be unlovely and unfaithful to his wife and children.
When we don’t have a good grasp of a matter or the communication flow of the family falls to the shadow of harmony then the lack of understanding of the matter of communication will simply lead couples into acting in ways that will bring misunderstanding between them.
If we can be patient, ponder and verify to understand the reason behind every word, action, smile and anger of our spouse before responding negatively then our feedback response will not be za disagreeable and contentious but in conformity and harmony.
Mutual understanding has the tendency of bringing our negative and positive selves to the point of adoptability which final result invents the better version of us.
God bless you greatly and remain heavenly focused.
Rev. Dominic Okechukwu Akano
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